July 28, 2014

Study: Same-Sex Couples Are Leaving Gay Neighborhoods

New research finds that historic gay neighborhoods, such as New York's Chelsea and San Francisco's Castro, are changing as a growing number of heterosexuals move into the area.

The study, led by University of British Columbia sociologist Amin Chaziani, is considered one of the largest studies on sexuality in the United States.

In the past ten years, there has been an eight percent drop of gay male couples residing in these gay enclaves, and a thirteen percent drop for their lesbian counterparts.

Chaziani gives serval reasons for this shift, such as the changing attitudes of the LGBT community and the growing acceptance of same-sex relationships.

“Gay neighbourhoods have been crucial to the struggle for freedom, and have produced globally important contributions, from politics to poetry to music and fashion,” says Ghaziani. “The growing acceptance of same-sex couples underlying these findings is extremely positive, but it is important that we continue to find meaningful ways to preserve these culturally important spaces."

Fun fact: I met my boyfriend in the "gay neighborhood" of Chelsea. We're, like, so cool.

July 22, 2014

Low Income Individuals Must Use Separate Apartment Entrance In Manhattan

In a shocking turn of events, low income individuals are being treated differently in New York City

I'm not positive, but this may be the first account of unequal treatment since the city was founded 1624.

The problem: Extell, which is building the 33-story luxury condo on the Upper West Side, will have a separate entrance for affordable-housing tenants.

In addition to an alternate entrance, the low-income tenants (whom make 60 percent of the medium income or less) will be barred from the amenities of the building. I don't really feel like explaining the logistics of how this is possible / legal, so you can read about it here.

This is not yet confirmed, but it appears that gay men in the building-- no matter their income level -- will only be allowed to use the back door.

Related reading: Employees In NYC Can Use Paid Sick Leave Starting July 30th

July 19, 2014

Employees In New York City Can Use Paid Sick Leave Starting July 30th

New York City's new Paid Sick Leave Law, which applies to most employees in NYC, is already in effect.

Starting on July 30, 2014, employees who have been accruing time may use their sick leave.

This law directly impacts any employee in New York City who works more than 80 hours a year. I send my condolences to anyone working 79:59:59 hours per year.

From the Department of Consumer Affairs website:

"If you are an employer, including a nonprofit or small business, you must provide:

   • Paid sick leave if you have 5 or more employees who work in NYC or unpaid sick
     leave if you have fewer than 5 employees.
   • 2 days of paid sick leave to domestic workers who have worked for you for more
     than 1 year. This leave is in addition to the 3 days of paid rest to which
     domestic workers are entitled under New York State Labor Law."

Earlier this week, Mayor Bill de Blasio joined volunteers and government officials in Brooklyn to raise awareness for the new law.

"People have the ability when they are sick, when their child is sick, when their parent is sick, to spend a few days getting well, helping others get well -- not bring their sickness to work," said De Blasio.

Okay, okay. Who wants to get the flu and hang out in Prospect Park with me while businesses go under?

For further information, please click here.

July 17, 2014

Bee Newspapers Drop "Redskins" Name From Sports Stories

My alma mater, Lancaster Central High School in Lancaster, New York, has a controversy on its hands.

The Bee Group Newspapers, which has upwards of 50,000 paid subscribers in the Western New York area, is refusing to use the word "Redskins" to identify Lancaster sports teams at any level.

This decision comes at the same time that many are urging the Washington Redskins to change their name due to perceived racism.

Side note: Don't I look super cool as a high school student?

"We'll just refer to them as the Lancaster football team or the Lancaster field hockey team. I know that (nickname) is something that is very much a part of that community and I understand that, but things change...you're talking about someone's skin color as their ethnicity. That's their nickname," said the newspaper group's managing editor, David F. Sherman.

According to the last census, the racial makeup of the town was 97% Caucasian.

I played Lancaster sports for over a decade in my youth and didn't see an issue with the name. But then I left for college and met new people who actually had different skin colors and religions and sexualities.

In other news, pale Irish-Americans were also upset with the name "Redskins," but only during the summer months.

July 14, 2014

Lunch Isn't Cheap: Use Delivery.com To Save Money During The Week

As a busy New Yorker with a constant sushi craving, it's pretty easy to rack up an expensive lunch bill during the week.

My office is right in the heart of the Financial District and there's amazing food around every corner ... so fuck packing a lunch!

Since I work for a nonprofit organization and reside in New York City, I'm not necessarily rolling in the dough, so I've found a few ways to take advantage of discounts and promotions to save cash.

Delivery.com is very generous with their discounts, which typically works out to 40% -- as their most used promotion is eight bucks off a $20 minimum order. They usually give around four discounts each month.

Pro tip: While a lot of their discounts say they expire on Sunday, you can typically use them for most of the day on Monday.

If you have an office fridge, why not stock up on some snacks and breakfast for the week? It's tempting to order the $21 sashimi and sushi combo (or whatever you fancy to eat), and think, "Oh, it's only $12." But, if you end up taking advantage of typical lunch specials, you can pay around $4 per meal for the entire day.

Idiot tip: Don't leave raw fish in the fridge, like, ever.

For my most recent order, I paid under $14 for lunch (three sushi rolls), dinner (a large avocado salad), breakfast in the morning (a small mixed salad) and two cans of ginger ale (I easily get stomachaches, so they're nice to have at the office. Too much info?).

Save $3 for the tip and go pick up your food -- you shouldn't be sitting all day in your office anyways. Also, if you do deliver, make sure to tip appropriately. If you can afford to order lunch, you can afford to tip.

As tech savvy Millennials with student loans and a taste for convenience, we should be using our money in responsible ways. Getting on your feet in the work force doesn't have to coincide with packing PB&J sandwiches each day for lunch.

Further reading on managing your finances in the big city: Download Scoutmob. Now. (Also about sushi ... Am I going to get "mercury poisoning" like Jeremy Piven?!) and Guess What? New York City Is Not That Expensive.

Also, if someone from Delivery.com reads this and is upset, I may consider taking the article down if you tweet the following from your official account:

". is so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

July 11, 2014

28 Minutes to Santa Monica

Take me back to Malibu,
I'll hang out with the kids who think they're cool.

You can't really hear them over the waves, anyways.

I'll forget about the standing, holding, waiting, sweating, pushing, yelling and daydreaming.

Well, the bad kind of daydreaming.

You know the New York I'm describing; the one you complain about, but miss after a few days. You'll long for it, eventually.

I'll long for it.

I hate sounding like a brat, but I suppose I hate complacency more.

June 18, 2014

When Social Media Use Becomes Disgusting

As a modern Millennial, social media and technology have been engrained in my life since my early teens. 

After working in social media for the past year and a half, in addition to using it to advance my journalism career, I suppose I'm a little more jaded than your average 25-year-old.

On Tuesday night, I was riding the New York City subway with my boyfriend when one of the funniest things in the world happened. 

It was so funny and unique. 

Some homeless man was passed out, slumped over in his seat, and people were recording him, stop after stop.

Finally, after holding my tongue for some time, I finally said something.

"Dude, how old are you? Stop recording him. He's drunk."

"Ah, man. Man. Don't be a superhero."

What? I wasn't quite sure what he meant, but figured that he was comparing me to Clark Kent with my thick glasses and flowing hair. I get compliments in the darndest places!

"Who the fuck are you? Am I talking to you? Am I bothering you?"

"Well, yeah, you are bothering me. That's why I said something."

This infuriated the amateur videographer even more -- he became hostile and threatening, and his lady friend had to calm him down. He wanted to harm little old me.

"No. No. Not again. Not again. It's not worth it. He's not worth it."

Not again? Ah! I have only been punched in the face once -- during my freshman year of high school -- and I didn't want it to happen again. Especially with glasses on!

The other straphangers looked anxiously at us. I looked at the duo. The homeless man apparently looked at the floor, unaware of the argument that had erupted.

A few moments later, we pulled into our station. The two were still visibly hostile, so we walked past them quickly and made our way to the platform. I wasn't attacked for defending a homeless person, so my guardian angel must have been working overtime, per the usual.

Joking aside, the way people use social media is going past annoying -- it's downright disgusting. Sure, this occurrence isn't the worst thing that's ever happened on the New York City subway, and it's probably not even close, but it's a very slippery slope.

Maybe I'm overreacting, though. It's not like someone recently fell into the subway tracks, and instead of coming to her assistance, people pulled out their cell phones and started to record.

Oh wait. That did happen.

Please don't exploit people on social media. And make sure you're in a safe environment if you ever decide to confront someone.

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